What a powerful and personal post. The metaphor of juggling is often used to describe doing many things at once. But I wonder if gardening isn't also a good metaphor. In a garden, one plant might need extra water, another might need to have the weeds around it pulled, and another still might need to be cleared of pests. All of these plants have these needs simultaneously, but the way to meet these needs is to address them one at a time, beginning with the most urgent.
Your dancing is as always delightful: )
I like that metaphor a lot :)