People can easily at least make the attempt to settle their disputes with healthy communication. Instead they're furious someone said no to them and can't take it. I think that's what it boils down to. Wrote a post about it.
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I guess I need to go read a post :D
I'm leaving the events, name, and people involved out of it. They're not worth talking about. It's whatever.
shhhhhhhhhh
I am reading this really cool post that ryhmes
No, they are not.
Forget about them and just let this be your happy place again. A place you can come be creative and yourself. Where you are free to let that side of you be free.
Isn't that what this should be all about?
It is. However, the people and influences involved have sour grapes, and it goes back several years. I stood up for myself and the people enjoying my work after being knocked down. Once those types become exposed, rage sets in and they become hellbent on revenge, even though it was their mistake that started the chain of events. It's a textbook case. I can get back into my groove, but they won't stop. The blockchain backs up a lot of the evidence; chain of events and whatnot. I don't mind paying attention to it and I have good reasons to. The easiest way to get stabbed in the back is to turn your back to the knife. Best defense is to simply present a shovel then watch and analyze how they bury themselves; figuratively speaking, of course. That type digs and claws their way out, just to do it all over again; that gets analyzed. Then you start noticing the patterns and players. For me it's fascinating. Those types, no matter what, cannot stop themselves and have no way of knowing why everything falls apart around them or how to fix it. They'll just blame someone else, go right back to digging the hole.
agree 1000%
Why I don't trust a lot of people. And if you break that trust, if you are one of the few.....there is no going back.
And yes, I am always cautious around people that blame every bad thing on others. Yet, I will not let others take away from the things I find fun. Although I, too, need a rest from people and such once and a while..so I get that too.
People watching is always interesting :D