From my experience I can say we are living in a world where we believe our ideology about life is strange , it's common in Africa where we believe one's destiny can be affected spiritually either negatively or positively.what I really think about life is I believe life doesn't give us what we want rather it gives us what we worked for or deserves .
I think it depends on what one believes! Some believe in destiny to be worked out, others believe that destiny is in God and only God determines what happens in life. Some also believe that when you work hard, you can change your destiny!
It depends on where you fall into in your belief because as a man think in his heart, so he is.
I concur