80% of people can't deny the fact that they have been sexually abused before. Yes! You saw what's up there. It happens and it ain't a new thing, where we see young people sexually abused, molested and maltreated. It's rampant among our young ones and it's hard to live with it.
A father can sexually abuse his own biological child(incest). Some uncles are not left out, neighbors case can't be over emphasized. Should we say it's a curse or what? I find it hard to understand. Maybe we should call it an Inheritance, still can't figure it out. Because it's rampant everywhere. A lot of people are out there being sexually abused on one way or the other and it's killing them silently. Along the line, victims will be shut up not to tell anyone what they encountered.
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What should be the causes of sexual abuse ? I think I found some reasons,below are the reasons;
Greediness
When a man is greedy, he won't be satisfied with what he has, he will make a way to look for more even if it's in an inappropriate way. A greedy man can abuse any girl of any age. If he gets hold of her. Not minding how small her orifice may be, a greedy man would not care. He can abuse his own blood as far as the girl will quench his hunger for the sex.
There is a story of a young girl who her parents died leaving only her. She was lucky to stay with her aunt.This lady in question is a brainiac. She represents the school in all kind of quiz, debate and sport etc. Not until her aunt's husband started asking her out but she refused, her mistake was keeping mute until the matter get worse and her aunt travelled out of the country leaving only her niece and her husband together in the house.As time went on, he abused her sexually and the young girl couldn't tell anyone. The worst part was that wherever this man sees this young girl; toilet, kitchen, sitting room he made sure he had sex with the innocent girl. The lady became a dull arduous, she stopped making friends, she was withdrawn, taciturn. This man's greedy act made him abuse this innocent young girl sexually.
And one thing I have noticed in this case is that, the victims find it difficult to talk, their mood changes whenever they always with people.
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Inability to control oneself
Some men find it difficult to control their sexual urge. When it comes to that point, they do not care how old a girl is, their relationship, its implications or whatever, they do it with no conscience. Thereby embedding an everlasting scar in the victim's mind.
Mode of dressing
Although we can't say young ones dress sexually but we see girls of 14-16 wearing clothes that barely cover their sensitive parts. Attracting men to them, exposing their body. They tend to forget that there are men out there who go wild by merely sighting a girl's thigh.
Sexual abuse has caused lots of damage to ones life. Damages that we can't mention. Some are as follows;
It inhibits progress
*It can destroy the womb
*It takes away prideIt can make a sex addict
It causes phobia for guys
Image sourceHow can we be free from sexual abuse? We can be free if only we are OUTSPOKEN!!!!
Being outspoken will really help a lot of young people to be free from sexual abuse.
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