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The form of love Eros (anc.greek Ἔρως) - the god of love in ancient greek mythology, the companion and assistant of Aphrodite. Eros - one of the four varieties of love, distinguished by ancient greek philosophers.
The form of Eros love manifests itself, as a passionate and imperious, sensual attraction to the object of love. The most important aspects are the aesthetic nature - appearance, manners, sounding of the voice, gait, image, status.
Eros is a spontaneous form of love that arises as a primary reaction to a stimulus in the form of a partner that responds to already existing tastes and sexual preferences. As a result of the manifestation of the love form of Eros, people experience a sexual attraction to other people, wanting to possess the object of love, but not to love.
The form of love Eros manifests itself in such relationships as resort romances, new relationships (especially in the spring), adolescent inclinations and other similar forms of connections that are conditioned by the charm of the partner's external data, without taking into account his inner world.
People who are dominated by this form of love tend to comfort. In their love, they are capable of self-sacrifice, they try to improve their ways of expressing feelings, begin to pay more attention to caring for their bodies, pick up more beautiful clothes and become more attentive to the aesthetics of the environment.
They willingly begin to adapt to their partner, but at the same time, they stubbornly begin to adapt their partner to themselves.
The manifestation of love, in their understanding, is physical pleasure, in order of priority - comfortable conditions, delicious food, material benefits, beautiful places, sexual pleasures. Not gaining what they want, with this partner, they quickly become frustrated with the object of "love" and easily part with it.
The inner world of a partner, such people are of little interest, because their own inner world is a dark forest for them - they never went there, therefore, it is not possible for them to show interest in the partner's soul, in their minds, even such an idea does not arise.
For such people, the outside world is not so much the actual interest in which they achieve something, how much it represents to them "salvation" from the demons of their own inner world. Preferring the outside world, they flee from their inner world - their choice, "flight from oneself."
Manifestation of the partner's individuality and his desire to express himself, to show the wealth of his inner world, will always cause irritation in them. it will remind them that they themselves, for years, ignore their inner world.
Данная форма любви получила распространение и признание еще в древней Греции и такая форма любви наиболее характерна для развитых обществ.
Today, the form of love Eros is widely promoted by the media, covering the life of the celebrity and pointing out to people "what is success", commercials, various types of art and other ways of loading information into the human mind, creating a "necessary" value system.
"You should not be happy - you must be captured by the madness of the crowd, you must share the feelings and values of the crowd, otherwise you will be strangers, which means that you will not need us."
In general, we can say that the form of Eros love is not love, it's just love, minute weakness, sexual attraction to a person who has the desired attributes to satisfy one's own desires.
However, directly with mature love, it has nothing to do.
The concept of Eros love was developed by ancient sociologists with the purpose of distraction of the person, as one of the alternative factors of distraction, from the fact that the person thought about serious issues, over his life, over his freedoms and rights, over what he really needs to strive for and what want.
By providing a person with a concept of happiness in a hedonistic way of life, politicians bought themselves insurance against free-thinking masses, free and independent people who are prone to the ability to critically think and question what the authorities say. At all times, nothing was as frightening as free-thinking people; they are the greatest threat.
Love and be loved! But do not confuse love and flirt.
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Eros can be called as a passionate love where the lover is attracted physically to his love. This type of love is short-lived and usually fades quickly, after they ‘achieve’ their love. It is more common is early young age. The lover is not interested in the personality of his beloved, but their physical appearance.
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