I recall the words of Sante Caserio when being questioned by the judge during his trial for assassinating the President of France, Sadi Carnot, by stabbing him in the neck. 'Boys often do silly things.', or words to that effect.

Words aren't rape. It can be true that sometimes rapists say things in support of rape, but as you are aware from your research, it is far more common for rapists to virtue signal and make pretense to mightily strive to prevent it. They often work as teachers, priests, or in NGOs involving poverty stricken, orphaned, and defenseless children, both to cover their crimes behind a wall of virtue, and to gain access to helpless victims.

Sante Caserio also said:

"‘Long live Anarchy! Long live the Revolution!’"

I think both you and I have expressed similar sentiments. Does that make us guilty of stabbing Frenchmen in the neck?