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Well, I think that is a personal choice. I have family members both ways and honestly, the one that doesn't have a grave, I never felt closure with. Silly, right? Because it has always been traditional to have a grave, even one of my great grandparents were stacked when buried, so less space. I think I probably could get used to that, but, I was thinking about how the reason that I found so many relatives was through the gravesites. But, I sure can see your point.

And I see your point, I have discussed it with my family and made sure they are Ok with the idea if any of them had felt the need for a grave and marker I would have compromised and plan for one

Well, then it settled! You'll be scattered to the earth! ;)

That works for me :)

You are too easy! :)

Sometimes but not always :)