poem for you,from Rumi
When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of distress and anxiety;
If I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without any pain.
From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me.
There is a great secret in this for anyone who can grasp it.
Sometimes we just need little break to realize that we are cosmos in a motion,and that that what we want should not own us :)