Priorities

in #priority3 months ago (edited)

Hello, Writing Warriors

From under the blanket, I am again up to write down my thoughts.These thoughts are coming from flashback. So, to pour my thoughts I have to see back into my last year.

Give me a minute to scroll down all my memories of last year and I have to find that time when I was not showing any concern to my project.

It was time of dull winter when it was just started. Winter days were foggy as they are now. I went back my home from my university. I was assuming that after going home I will be able to feel home and I will be relaxed, but it wasn't so as I was assuming in my head.

So, twist was that my sister secured admission in university and those were new days for her. She was confused and puzzled. I was understanding her situation because I went through all these stages where she was at that time.

Well, my father talked me and he suggested me that I should go with her to university and to give her guidance about how to study courses and other stuff! As a big brother it was my duty to do so and I cannot say "no" to that situation.

On the other hand, my vacations ended and I had to travel back to my university. Moreover, I checked deadline to submit my group assignment and my group mates were constantly calling me. In perplexity, I was not listening to them, although it was not solution. Later on, I realized that at least I should explain them.I narrated them all the situation and they understood. It was good thing that my mates understood me. They did all work of my side too which made me quite happy.

In this way, I went with my sister to her university. We did shopping, bought books which were of use, bought a new mobile for her. Well, we were not alone, Infact, my father and mother were also with us. We spent a beautiful day in a new city. It was new begining day for my sister to kick on the journey of university. No doubt, it was my duty as a big brother to be with her on her first day.

Prioritization

Everything is important but importance has ranks. There are some things which hold higher position and some hold lower position. It's our choice to which thing we are giving first position and to which thing we are giving lower one.
It's what we call prioritization. Priorities matters a lot.

Work is important, education is also important but for me family comes at the first position and it's my top most priority. I know it's priority of many others.

Here, i want to discuss something about friends and relationships. There are some people who are close to our heart (we consider) but they are not putting efforts in building bond strong, then it's time to understand that you should not go more close to them. You should understand that if they are not prioritizing you then you should also change your prioritization. In life, there are so many people who are loose in relationships. People come and fly from your life like a butterfly(even butterfly is a beautiful thing to create an analogy). People extract your efforts and they give you nothing. I think in this world, everyone became clever that things go on the process of advantage. That's why people focus on it.

Well, leaving everything aside let's get back to the main topic,I was aware that my group mates will understand me that I was spending family time and I was in need of some mental relaxation because I was in stress due to all going things. That's why I visited my home. In that assignment my contribution was zero but my group mates are good that they helped me a lot. Thanks to them.

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It would have been very confusing for your group mates if they didn't get any explanation from you. However, you did a very good job by making them understand what you are faced with.

Life is all about decision-making. At that very point, you had decisions to make and you chose to prioritize family. That's a good one, Bro.