All relationships change with time my dear, don't they? They can never be the same from the moment each part no longer novelty to the other :) And this is even more extreme when there are kiddos in the middle! You said something really insightful here:

i believe that in a relationship it's more of the woman who would be the reasonif you'll break up or stay together.

This is SO true! You are very smart!

Take care & lots of love to you.❤️ :)