Hello steemians,
Child or carrier? That is quite often question nowadays for some woman,
when they have a baby and hesitating what to chose - to stay with a baby
or make carrier and earn more money. Some woman are afraid to lose their jobs
if they will stay with a babies. There a lot of different situations in life,
but for me it is always "Family First" in my life.
When many years ago I had to make a decision, I haven't hesitate even for a moment.
Thus, I had prestigious job with a good carrier possibilities in the future,
I've chose children and family.
And there were no any moment, when I was regret of that. Children growing up very quickly
and that wonderful time
when they were children will never come back.
Time we could spend to our children is the best gift we could ever give to them.
They will remember not expensive toys, cloths
or something else we bought them - they will remember time we spend with them.
They should feel needful to us and save.
I know personally some women who left their's 2-3 month old children to babysitters
and chose carrier. At that moment they thought
that it is more important to earn more money.....and after some time they realized
that it is possible to earn money at any time,
but their children will never be babies again....
I'm interesting, what is your opinion on that question?
Thank You for visiting my posts,
Regards,
Ilona
very true
Interesting question ilonalt - I essentially agree with you but with a caveat - at some point letting your children learn their way in the world is important too. Not at 2-3 months obviously - but at some point, and I think this need to learn independence has been somewhat lost.
agree with you too@coldpie, independence is also very important, but it must to be smart independence, and it have to come naturally, when it is time for it, and of course, for everybody it is very different
nice one !!
I would love to be a stay at home mom but our current expenses and situation does not permit it. Maybe in the future when I earn loads on blogging and steemit that it just pays the bills. lol.
Caring for your own child especially in their formative years is essential, I make time by spending my mornings with them and then I go to work in the afternoon (I have a flexible shift).