Success is not all about being rich. Majority of people who have a lot of money are unhappy and live an unbalanced life.
Success, is making constant improvement in yourself, the way you live, how you serve, and the way you relate.
So why won't many people be successful?
Why is it that people don't make progress?
The more you progress, the more you have to concentrate on the little things that matter most. Yet, many people are not successful because they major in trivial things .
For you to be successful, you shouldn't continuously hang out with people of low frequency for a long time.
You can't continue eating garbage, regardless of your partner or co-workers food choice.
You have to spend your days on high quality activities.
As you become more successful, that is, you having to balance some few important things -physical, financial, spiritual and relational, in your life and getting rid of other things, the less you can condone low quality. You cannot exaggerate the un-importance of virtually everything.
Before you become successful, you can judiciously interact with just about anyone.
You can eat anything presented to you leniently.
You can calmly confirm activities and characters that are totally mediocre.
As the dreams you have for yourself begin to expand, you then understand that you have to make some changes. You have to reduce the way you spend all of your earnings and time on junk and entertainment. You need to gather, save and invest especially on education and future.
As you become more successful, you will hardly justify low quality. You will become more focused. Your daily behavior will center continuously on high quality.
Now this is not about you being perfect. And definitely not about you being busy regularly. In the actual fact, success is said to be true when it involves mini -retirement.
So, if your behavior daily is full of low quality regularly, what do you expect life to present to you?
Your options or choices must be of higher quality.
Your relationships must be of higher quality.
All aspect of your life affects all other area of your life. This brings us to the saying, the way you do anything is the same way you do everything. The level of this kind of thinking is high. This makes sense only to people that have removed everything they hate from their lives. For you to apply this principle: your everyday and normal life must be filled with only the things you place high value on.
Once your days consists of only the most important things that mean the world to you, and you doing well in those little areas, you will definitely dominate in every area of your life. This is because your life consists only of the things you highly value. You have succeeded in weeding every other thing out. You are living willfully and harmoniously. You have momentum and stability. You are becoming who you really want to be, as the day goes by.
To really do this takes a lot of time and and is really difficult to live in practice.
Having to say No to great but un-imporrant opportunity is difficult.
Stopping bad habits is difficult.
It takes real courage to expand your vision and to change your belief system.
It's very simple to quickly revert back to minute and mediocre thinking.
But, as you move closer to living each and everyday with your values and ideals, great things begins to occur. You will feel much more happier. You will make out time for those you love. You will utilize your time judiciously. You will run after bigger ambitions and dreams.
You will be more flexible when challenges occur. You will live at a much more higher frequency. And everything around you will reflect that.
Like i said earlier, most people are not successful because they major in trivial things.
Hence, majority of people will not be successful.
Many people will not expand or progress.
But you sure will. You are aware of it, trust me, you can feel it. You are already walking towards that path. You are moving closer daily.
Very soon, you will be totally committed to becoming who you know you can be. Immediately you cross that point of no return, nothing and nobody can stop you.
Thanks for reading. You are highly appreciated.
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Hahahahahsh laughter wan kill. The pix is very descriptive of the context.
My dear, lol. couldn't resist it when I saw the image. had to use it immediately.
Yeah
Success is not a measure of bank account
Very true.
Somebody said, If you hang out with four mediocres, you will be the fifth one. Nice post sister.
There you go!. Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are... Thanks for reading.
Success is just a war of attrition, because successful and unsuccessful people do not vary greatly in their abilities. They vary in their desires to reach their potential. Thanks for sharing
Yes I agree with you. Success is mostly about improving oneself consistently.
Some situations when you stop hanging out with some of your friends, people say ur proud... How do you handle such people, so you won't look proud?
Truly, many people won't be happy with most of our decisions in life, but at the end we can't really please everyone. The most important thing is for us to fulfil our dreams even if it means we having to let some people go.
But our society today wrongly refer fat bank account owners as successful, thanks for this nice post.
Really a wrong perception. Many people can do dreadful things just to make money, can we say that is been successful? No way!!!
Successful is all about building more successful ones...
True! very true dear... impacting in others makes everthing achievable and lets stressful.
Seeing this picture alone, I couldn't read further. Lol
Working on bettering myself. Thanks sis.
Am glad to hear that sis. You are already on that path, the good thing is that, you spread the love by impacting in others too. I admire you for that. Good job thus far.
Thanks for the clearity of the concept success
You are welcome dear.