Once they betrayed you, they played you dirty either in marriage, courtship or even in work or ministry. Is the wound hurting? Do you want to forgive and you can not? Are you tempted to start paying with the same currency? The safest thing is that you get to think that you were a fool or a fool, and that they never do it again.
What I do? What if I forgive him / her and do it again? We have three options:
Our first option is to keep the distance, we want to feel protected and make sure that it will not hurt us again. It is the natural one.
Our second option is to pay for the broken dishes with people who have nothing to do with the matter. We begin to contaminate others. It is the carnal.
Our third option is to forgive and deliver that wound to God. He is the only one who can heal, restore and renew our convictions and our attitude of service and commitment to others. It is the spiritual one.
Forgiveness is not an option, it is a divine order to be able to experience freedom in relationships and in life. It is a process that could take a time where we seek to reestablish trust and to do so requires a commitment to change and responsibility.
"If you forgive others for the wrong done to you, God, your Father who is in heaven, will forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive you. "Matthew 6: 14-15 (BLS)
Do not let the wounds limit you in your potential, cut off your dreams. God can change your desert into paradise if you are willing to forgive, love and serve without expecting anything in return. God will use your wounds to bless others.
"If you forgive others for the wrong done to you, God, your Father who is in heaven, will forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive you. "Matthew 6: 14-15 (BLS)
Do not let the wounds limit you in your potential, cut off your dreams. God can change your desert into paradise if you are willing to forgive, love and serve without expecting anything in return. God will use your wounds to bless others.
If there is anyone who can understand the betrayal is Jesus, in Luke 23:34 he said: "Father, forgive all these people! They do not know what they are doing! ", So he understands your pain and is ready to heal you and help you in the process. Wounds are opportunities to grow and mature in life.
@coronadoedgar, only Jesus can heal the wounds of the soul, because He fully knows what I believe and He alone has the cure for all our wounds.
Thanks for sharing.
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