In the time's that you feel God doesn't make sense and you don't understand his perfect plan in your life, what do you do?
Have you ever gone out for big dreams, big goals but things didn't work out the way you had planned, you didn't make it, pregnancy didn't last, but contracts didn't go through, and failed marriage?
God wouldn't give you something you can't handle even though it seems that way, but it all comes down to us. The disappointment is just for a season it's not the rest of your life, the disappointment, the loss, and failure or betrayal that's temporarily, we go through things that are not fair, people do us wrong, we didn't get the promotion, came down with an illness.
You cant stop life from happening to you, but you can choose how you respond and if you hold on to the hurt you go on dwelling on the past, thinking 'why did they say that about me', 'why did I lose a loved one'.. You are opening a door to bitterness. When you are bitter it affects every area of your life.
Bitterness poison's your attitude, the way you see things, bitter people don't have relationship, they are easily offended, it's not you it's the bitterness coming out.
You may have good reason to be bitter, maybe something was unfair but holding on to it is only gonna make things worse, it's gonna steal your dreams and rob you of your joy, bitterness can keep you from your destiny, who you are right now, today is not who you have to be tomorrow. You can literally change your life in one second, when people tell you, you can't! You dont need to look at them, you look in the mirro then you ask yourself 'Are you gonna give up'??
If there's anything that is going to keep you from being unproductive it's 100% of negative self thought. Now wonder what will happen if all through the day instead of putting yourself down, instead of dwelling on the negative, but start thinking 'i' m a master piece, I'm wonderfully made, I'm talented and original.
Don't stay 'Here' something is waiting for you 'There'. It all comes down to your choice and making a decision, you either choose to be afraid and scared, or stay home all through doing nothing.
Or you choose to step up! But the difference between a winer and looser is the winner understands that's there's a choice, sometimes they get afraid too. But they choose to stand up and show courage and do something about it. So choose to be brave just like a winner you are and we all are. Praise God.
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