heh... thanks for the support @limabeing!
Not sure what lead to this... up to very recently @cuddlekitten had never received a single flag... she's been passing out ~3 times more cuddles than comments and everything was hunky-dory so far.
ah well, we'll see... I think this must be a misunderstanding?!
@fraenk - This is what happens, when bots are allowed to run rampant! ..and the owners lack the necessary discernment.
Sure the can programme a bot but can they curate!?