I agree, these issue do run deep and can also get very complex. However, with some faith and patience, we can ride the wave of chaos and come out the other side in peace. It will be a stormy ride, but necessary for us to learn how these new relationship models will manifest. I sleep over these issues too. lol
I am not aware of @stellabelle, but I did check out her post. Sounds like she is thinking along the same lines. I also noticed that you commented on her post, but you have yet to throw your hat into the ring regarding her project. Throw it in. Make yourself known! :D