All i wanna write about my first gf. Her name was Nishat. I like her from my primary school life. But i never talk to her. btw, she was my classmate. when we set foot in the college, that was the first time that i talked to her. slowly we got into a relationship. it was a great journey. our relationship lasted for 7 years. then boom. we separated, she moved on. i got depressed. still i miss her a lot.
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First love huh? A nice story of your journey together and I'm sure you had seven wonderful years with Nishat. Sometimes our paths run parallel, converge for a time and then diverge...It doesn't negate the journey and what we had right? It's ok to miss her too.
Thanks for joining in, your first time here on the #weekwnd-engagement topic I think. You were the first to comment so I gave you a larger upvote. 😉
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thanks bro. i am trying to move on. but still i miss her. love to think about her. ❤
Yeah, it'll be hard for a time but things will work out.
First loves are always quite hard and they always hold a special part in our lives. My current partner was my first love. Then we left and got back together not long after. So I can understand the always thinking about the first love.
I hope you heal my friend.
ENGAGEtokens.what can i do with this engage token? i am new here. dont know about this.
Awww...life happened.
That's the thing...Life happens sometimes and we just have to move on, be thankful for the good times I guess right?
That's right!
this is life. sometime gives us good moments and sometimes worst. but we have to accept. dont have any other option.
I believe that first love always leaves indelible traces, it is a very important experience in our lives 😍
This is a nice way to put it.
I think we all remember our first love, don't we? Do you remember it? 😊🥰
I do for sure.
But I call whomever I fall for a first love as that love is a first between the two of us. You know?
Good point! Then all relationships are your first love 😍
yes. its almost 3 years that we broke up. still i miss her. still i love to think about ger. love to read old conversation.
I still remember my first boyfriend very fondly, unfortunately we lost contact and I haven't heard from him in a long time.
First Love is always something special and unforgettable!!! 7 years such a good and long relationship !!! Sorry to hear that you both not together now but I think it better to let someone go if her heart is not there for you anymore :) Life is to move forward. Hope you are both still good friend.
This is exactly right...We have to move on with our lives, to find new paths to follow, and chase happiness no matter what has befallen us in the past.
I couldn't agree more. People do terrible damage to themselves and others when they try to stay in a relationship that the other person no longer wants.
So many do this...Not so smart I guess, but that big step forward can be so difficult to take.
I've always liked the saying 'The hardest step forward is the one that breaks the chain.'
This is gold.
Gold!
Thanks! I wasn't really trying to spin chains into gold, but if someone got some gold out of it, I'm happy to spread the wealth!
trying to move on. its almost 3 years.
Ahh sorry to hear that. Hopefully one day you can look back at your time together, take the lessons and and the value it added to you as a person and put it into your future
This is well said mate. Respectful and quite right indeed.
thank u for ur support. ❤
I agree. Well said.
El primer amor siempre se recuerda como algo muy especial. Es un relacion de primer vez en muchas cosas..Pero la vida, es asi, aprendemos para luego comprender el para que?
Good story to break into the weekend engagement community and topic! Sounds like a good love story, except it ended. The good part about it though is you got to experience love, some people never get that chance. It makes you a better and smarter person I think!
Not to be too 'Debbie Downer' about it, but all love stories eventually end.
Hahah yeah death is the one thing we all can't escape!
There's always the old movie quote "If it didn't end badly it wouldn't end."
One of my favorites!
I'm sorry to hear this ... but I'm sure that in all those years you've learned a lot from her. We must always be grateful for experiences and accept that life goes on ❤️.
sure. it was a great journey for me.
I don't think you ever forget your first love. You will move on, but, you will nostalgically think of her from time to time. Embrace the love for what it was, and then move on. For you. For her.
Good luck!
trying to move on. its true that i still miss her a lot. bt its not painful to think about her.
That is awesome.
true.. first love will always be first love and we can almost never forget that person.. I'm still in touch with my first gf and she was/is still the best thing that happened to me.. Not saying I'm not happy with my fiance.. I am happy.. But the memories of first love will always be different.. Those butterflies can never be felt again..
yp. nothing can be compared with the feelings of first love, first person.
Life goes on, first love butterfly feelings, a very real experience to go through.
With time that leaves, second time maybe not quite as intense, when you meet the one you going to live with forever, many times the feeling will occur again.
Realm of never been too sure! 🙃
true. nothing can compare with the feelings of first love.
There remains the nice memory of a pleasant trip, this also counts. That they have separated may seem like a loss, but it is not comparable to the value of having known each other and having had 7 years of good times. That you miss her is not bad. She may still miss you too
yp..it was really a great journey for me. still i miss her. bt dont know about her.
Oh wow, that was beautiful
Well until you guys got separated of course.
But hey man, how you holding up?
actually i dont know. cant make a new relationship atm. trying to make myself busy with my job, work etc.
Well, that makes sense. I feel you should allow yourself love and be loved again.
The separation can be quite disorientating but, you cant find what you seek in your job, etc.
You should try to go out there.