Six Attributes Women Find Appealing in Men

in #women8 years ago

Personal differences usually come to play in determining what characteristics or attributes we find appealing in the opposite sex but there are a few non-compromising ones. These are attributes every girl wants in a man:

One: Height

Most women want their men to be tall, someone they can literally look up to. Like my friend Nina would say, “If he ain’t tall, there ain’t no point to it.” Giving it a deeper look, I realized that most fantasy romance books almost always made out the Prince Charming to be a man who “towered over his lady” and she had to “stand on the tip of her toes to kiss him.” What more can I say? Tall is sexy guys!

 

Two: Funny men are the new kind of attractive

One of the surest ways to know if a lady is attracted to you is by checking how she reacts to your jokes. If she laughs easily and freely, there’s a good chance she really likes you. Like my girlfriend will keep telling me, “he never makes other girls laugh this much!” I guess you know what she means. 

Three: Generosity

Every lady likes to be spoiled no matter the independent air she puts up most of the time. So a man who is able to give freely to his lady will soon have her eating out of his hands. Just so you know, when your girlfriend convenes with her friend, they are discussing whose boyfriend buys the most gifts for who. Trust me on that.

Four: Full of surprises

Do you know what makes people boring and relationships to end most of the time? When they become too predictable! Thus a spontaneous man would always be attractive to most women. Today he plans a sudden trip to Hawaii. A few weeks later, he wants to go rock climbing. When he returns from the office, he’s bearing a bouquet of flowers. Some mornings, he leaves a poem under her pillow. And so on and so forth. You catch my drift right? 

Five: Intelligence

The world is advancing and the nerds have become the new cool. And as a result of this, most ladies want the brainy guy; the guy who knows something about almost anything. People who are attracted to intelligent people are called sapiosexuals and they are most likely to be intelligent themselves. Intelligence rocks big time! My girlfriend tells me that whenever I am going on about some deep subject, maybe on science, politics or business, she usually just want to hold my face and ravish those sexy lips of mine!  

Six: Personal hygiene

This is so important it is non-negotiable. Clean and well dressed guys are hot as hell! Ask any lady around. Personal hygiene tells a lot about a guy than most people realize. When you take good care of yourself it shows that you respect yourself and have a healthy dose of self esteem.

When a man has these six attributes, the ladies are going to be trailing after him like insects to a ripened fruit. Don’t say I didn’t tell you! 


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@msgivings

I guess you have fatten the goose and now the quality is even more shallow.
I wasn't sure you could do it, but you keep suprising me!

Your dating/romantic advice is along the lines of "Tips in keeping the water wet"

OMG dude, I love you.

Yes, I loved the content of @msgivings at first. Now it's just HowToBasic. No value.

I agree. The advice is a little to soft as well. Sometimes men need to here it straight as to why they suck with women. I just posted a story on the topic from the harsh reality perspective myself. Men need to hear the reality about women and dating that might not always be that pleasant but is the truth as to why they are lonely and single.

Interesting point of view. Thanks for sharing) By the way, the name of the post could be easily changed from "Six Attributes..." to "Sex Attributes..." )))

How can it be that Steem Power is not on your list!
I thought the ladies loved it!

Money can compensate height and Full of surprises.

They like one thing. You being relaxed and at ease. That's all. Then there's only chemistry working out.

Yeah I do like surprises but after nearly 30 years of being together he seems to think him telling me he went to the shops to buy me some flowers but they weren't looking good so came away with nothing is enough surprise for me. Who said romance is dead :/

No mention of confidence? This list seems pretty suspect...

Confidence makes up for the lack of any of these qualities!

I covered it in my blog titled 6 Steps to Staying Out of the Friend Zone. It's about being confident despite our flaws. I'm not tall but I'll be dammed if I let it get in the way of how awesome I am. It's all about accepting our flaws, fixing those of which we can control, and walking proud of who we are. While I may not attract all women or even most, I have plenty of options with some beautiful, quality women mostly because of my confidence despite my flaws.

Money doesn't hurt.

Wow, I didn't know about that.

Humor and intelligence are big things for me. It is especially good if his sense of humor is kind of weird, like mine. :) I don't particularly care if guys are tall or not.

I've got my own preferences that aren't on the list: into the arts or some other creative pursuit, likes history, not an outdoorsy person, not into sports, preferably long or kind of long hair and clean-shaven, and a free-spirited, hippie attitude. I always hung out with the theater people in high school and college, so it wasn't too hard to find men like this. And, I married a musician with long hair. :)

Unfortunately, I can't grow by any substantial amount height-wise or I totally would (I stand at about 5'8"), but I'll be damned if I don't fit perfectly into the other categories. haha ;) Maybe there's hope for me yet, although, to the women I tend to find more attractive (extremely short) in a way, I do tower over them! :P

Great article, it's always nice to hear a woman's opinion of what makes a man more or less attractive. More men should take the time to read posts like this, as it would help them tune their methods and find that learning curve to successfully get and keep the type of woman they long for!

I have to agree 1000% on the hygiene part.. I can't imagine being the type of man to NOT smell amazing or look fresh and on-point! Idk what I'd do without my Guilty by Gucci or Set Sail Martinique by Tommy Bahama or even my Versace cologne.. Long-lasting and delicious is just a must!

My girlfriend tells me that whenever I am going on about some deep subject, maybe on science, politics or business, she usually just want to hold my face and ravish those sexy lips of mine!

Those are the best types of women.. The ones who become even more attracted to you the more you speak on intellectual topics. ;) Got yourself a keeper for sure!

So why am I still single?

I would think that attitude would be one of things that women look for in men.
Women like men who knows how to treat them like a lady

It's all bullshit beginning to end, but she had to throw one real one in: height definitely does matter.

Every 5'0 midget girl feels entitled to a guy who is at least 6'1. Because her height doesn't matter, yours does.

Remember msgivings' precious tip here fellas - always be attractive, never be unattractive. Advice like this is easily worth $20k any day, you just have to be positive and really take it to heart.

HaHa do you know why woman look at height ? All they like BIG size :P

The more guys I've met throughout life, the more I have realized above anything else is that smart guys are by far the HOTTEST! Nerds all the way. I also love a man with some class. Hygiene would be a very close second ;) Followed by a great sense of humor of course!

Are those attributes in descending order of importance? Thats a bit depressing for all the short guys out there lol

yes thats me always catching the glad eye of the older women
!(bazil)[