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"@curie has supported you - Now it is your turn!" I think, personally, that the entire Title is more than just an implication. By inferring this attitude, you attempt to make people feel bad about how they are utilizing the system. I think that's the shame-ful part of it. Bex is right in implying that you can do this in a better way.

I have changed the title of the post in the hope that it reduces any implication / shame.

There is always a better way to do say and do things, and I, like many will continue to live and learn this along the way.

Thanks for your comments.

Much better title! :)