Anon 1... Maybe he is scared of commitment but there comes a stage in ones life that once you guys have reached a certain level in your relationship, you have to know where your stand is, any man who you cant see the future with is def not ready for commitment, as for the second guy, do a background check up.
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And lastly, marriage is not an achievement.

Anon 2, Any lady who sleeps with her girlfriends boyfriend should be an exgirlfriend and yes its cool you Let them know that you know and No do not confront them. Dont give them that avenue and wishing you the best.

Zizy any man that sleeps with a woman and keeps her hanging is a jerk ass... Whatever it is.. And to the babe you could also check yourself out, something must chase a man away. Lovely work Zizy.