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Exactly. I think that's the big takeaway. There are some blaming epicdice in the comments above for incompetence, but it's also worth noting that the goodwill you've earned by behaving the way you have through this all provided you with a support system that ameliorated the consequences of coding errors. So, let's also give you credit for competence when it comes to human relations, which is too often regarded a soft skill. Kudos to you for building a supportive community!