Hi There. I have a boy that's 5 years old. And I must say I can feel and see how he feels when there are tension in the house.....
I will open to you , I know that everyone are seeing this, but I feel that your post was just for me.......
We are staying with the inlaws and my husband doesn't work. He struggles to get a job.
So the tension in the house are sometimes high.
Sometimes it feels like I'm not a good mother because I can't always give my son what he wants. I was very emotional yesterday and I called my son and he gave me a hug and I was just crying. It feels like everything is to much for me. I'm sorry that I just command so long message but yeah kids can feel tension and stress along.
Oh my!🥺
I totally understand what it feels like to be faced with these situations as yours now, my parents faced a lot of it when I was still with them and I know how it got to me. I saw my mom cry and she'll try to act as if everything is fine but deep down I knew she wasn't. It means a lot for your child to give you that hug at least for a split second you'll let out some tears n look at the child with hopes that you have what to live for and trust that things would get better.
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You don't have to dear, yes the boy may be sad sometimes when he can't get what he wants, kids will always be kids in that aspect but that shouldn't make you feel bad. At least make him in a loving way that you care about him and get him things once in a while. He'll be happy and appreciate you. I haven't birthed a kid yet but I've been around them a lot. I'm so attached to nieces and a lot more kids out there so I know a lot about children. Just take it easy on yourself and hope for better days.
I really love it and I appreciate you. Do take care of yourself, I've said a few words of prayer in my heart for you and I hope things turn out well for you. Sending hugs 💙 my dear friend.
Thanks girl for the reply I really appreciate it. Where you from? I am on the moment really down and a dumbs. My son are my whole life and I would do anything for him.
Have a blessed evening girl. And thanks alot for the come back.
That's sweet 💙.
I'm from Nigeria. Sorry for the late response
Nah that's oky girl. Well nice to meet you 🙂🙂 how was your day?
Nice to meet you too☺️, my day is going pretty well, it's afternoon around here don't know what's time of the day it is in your country.
It's 14:49 here and very hot here and it's not even summer yet
Which means you're an hour ahead of us here. Haha! That's amazing, we had a fair weather around here, the sun wasn't so hot nor was it rainy or cold.