Hehe for me , both money and love go hand in hand no one comes first 😂😂, our mother's does not care more about money then bcos things are not quite expensive and dangerous then. Our mothers give birth at home ,apart from delivery fee of nowadays, complications during pregnancy and childbirth are now very common which a lot of women lose their lives if they are not financially ready . If it will be me and my man alone I would choose love but our kids are in this . When there is money, your life is 50% secure already .