I'm totally with you on this, most of the people help others with the purpose of everybody else in their surroundings to notice they are helping out and, from my perspective, it should not be that way at all.
My parents always told me to do good and help the people around me without the rest knowing what I did for there's the true virtue of helping.
Blessings, my friend!
You have a very good parents and they told you the truth. Helping others because you want every body else to know means you don't care about the situation of the person you want to help but the show off involved.
Thanks for your input. It is well appreciated.