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I'd say someone stealing $40,000+ directly from my wallet as a pretty big deal.

I am upset, how can I not be.

Oh, well at least you aren't too salty. (I thought upset and salty were synonyms but I guess not?)
I still believe you're going to get it back, and then some.

I'm probably a bit salty as well but I feel not as much as I am not really giving it much thought. If I think of it I'm pretty pissed but I just don't think of it. It is what it is, it's being dealt with, will wait to see how it turns out.