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A friend from work was telling about her weekend and getting a bit more organized financially. After going through a divorce a year or two ago, she was forced to refinance her shared home at a time that was "not ideal" to do so, going from a pretty decent mortgage, to one that was far less so. Now, she has started the process of shopping around for a better deal on her mortgage, in the hope that there will be something that either is cheaper, or provides more benefit than what she has, as there are some benefits to stay put also.

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Regardless of whether she find something or not though, going through the process means making decisions with intention, and not just out of necessity. This tends to lead to heightened awareness that builds knowledge and is better able to identify opportunities now, and in the future.

I think that one of the reasons that our general economic and financial literacy is so low these days across the entire population, is that we are increasingly removing the direct sight of a lot of our activities, either as we spend through contactless payments and the internet, or through the growing number of subscriptions we hold, nearly all for pure entertainment purposes. Taking a step back and reflecting on where we are financially, looking at where we are i8mpacted, and the alternative options we may have, gives us an insight not only into our economic position, but also into our habitual condition.

The more we proxy, the less aware we become of our own behaviors and how they impact on us. For instance, for those who have many subscriptions, if you were to identify them all, add up the costs, look at your usage, and consider what alternative uses there may be for that amount, would you get rid of any of them? If you had to choose a single subscription, which would it be? Yet, out of convenience, we rarely cutback on our spending, until we are forced to do so.

A business of any size is constantly monitoring spending, as well as opportunity. They are making forecasts on expectations, reviewing them monthly, quarterly, at the halves and yearly, so that they are able to better react, by predicting what moves will likely need to be made. Sometimes they beat expectations, sometimes not, but a lot of companies highly value the accuracy of the forecast. Much like the weather report, for a forecast to be useful, it has to accurately predict conditions, whether positive or negative, otherwise it is useless.

Shouldn't we be doing similar in our personal lives?

Life isn't "set and forget" as it is lived on shifting sands. Unfortunately though, we are pulled in all directions simultaneously, and most of us don't have a team of specialists collecting, evaluating and making suggestions on all the factors we need to take care of that impact on us. However, like my friend, we can put aside some time and designate it to parts of our life where we want to improve. It is interesting how "hard" it is to do this, even though we are able to find time to watch the latest episode release of our favorite shows, or similar.

Over the space of a couple decades, the difference between paying some attention or ignoring these types of topics, is going to have a fundamental effect on our financial lives. It is like eating poorly and not moving for decades, and then wondering where our health went, and why we feel so bad. While we should all "DYOR" on our investments, it is also up to us whether we do anything at all, and the biggest risk to our financial lives, is doing nothing about it.

In general, the people who are in crypto, tend to be more actively aware of their financial possibilities than those who are not, because it is essentially baked into the experience, and it requires some level of responsibility. However, this is a generalization, and I think that it is always worth taking a step back from our habits, to see if they are doing what they are intended to do -

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I developed a strategy to solve some of these issues. If a friend needs help, I advise him/her to start to save as aggressively as they can to have at least 3 to 6 monthly bills emergency savings. And I tell them that only once you have this you can start to learn about being financially stable. This has multiple implications. First, I do not spend weeks teaching someone who will mostly ignore my advice. Second, saving money empowers them, and soon they will want to have 6 months instead of 3, then 12 instead of 6. Savings bring you choice and freedom. Also, numbers increasing will make saving money addictive.

Then you can start to save for the sake of it, once your emergency fund is set aside. Having money ready brings opportunities. When someone needs money and sell something cheap, you can bring cash on the table. Being that car, land or a house. The more you cash you have, the better prepared you are for opportunities. And then you start to invest. I appreciate that I can teach someone the basics of investing in 12-18 months. The good basics, that make you better than 99% of the financial advisors from the bank. When you can read and understand The Intelligent Investor by Benjamin Graham (the guy to mentored Warren Buffet), you pass my class and you can start investing.

Yes, I know, I am that funny. Only 2 people passed until know, and tens, if not hundreds, did not managed to even build the emergency fund. Some people find to time-expensive to learn about personal finance. And it is sad.

I would add to the list of benefits in the first paragraph, that once on that path, it also makes people more aware of other potential uses for money, outside of saving it alone. People who invest in something, tend to pay attention to more than just their investment.

Only 2 people passed until know, and tens, if not hundreds, did not managed to even build the emergency fund.

It tells something about them, doesn't it? Out of curiosity, how are those two doing now?

Quite well, reaching 6 digits savings, mortgage for a house and so on.

If you had to choose a single subscription, which would it be?

Just internet subscription 🙂

Related to expenses, including investments, I am guided through life by my grandfather's saying: "Legs stretch as long as the blanket".

Never spend more than you can afford, seriously plan and allocate expenses, balance income and expenses.
enter crypto with money that, according to the instructions of the old crypto people: "You are ready to lose".

"Legs stretch as long as the blanket".

Lols! That is an awesome saying. I am going to use it!

Indeed, we should take an action from today for our future and wealth. I have been working for years, but I am not able to buy a house yet. It is because I didn't take risk at the right time and invest in some risky instruments.

It is because I didn't take risk at the right time and invest in some risky instruments.

I guess we are nearly all in the same boat with this - not risking when we should, risking when we shouldn't.

Do you know if death deck has any medics( monsters with tank heal ability)? I remember seeing only CORRUPTED PEGASUS with tank heal. But that card seems to be way too expensive.

Only corrupted pegasus.

Do you ever use this tool?

https://www.splintercards.com/abilities.html

Thank you. This is a first time I see it.

I tend to keep pretty good track of what is going on with our finances for the most part. My wife does pretty much everything through my accounts, so I get alerts anyway. It's nice because she actually prefers it that way, so it isn't like I have her under my thumb anyway.

I think it is good to share the load, especially if something happens where one becomes incapable for some reason. I would want my wife to take some interest, but it seems there isn't enough value for her to do so. If we divorced, does that mean she isn't interested in half? ;D

I try to keep her up to date on what is going on. I think she appreciates that, but she just wants to know it is being taken care of.

The issue affecting many of us when making decisions is the fact that we don't have people that surround us who have the power and might to actually shaped us to help us point out whether those decisions are helpful to our lives positively or negatively

One of the great things about the internet, is that we can surround ourselves with whomever we want - most of us choose poor digital bedfellows.

I like the saying, the best time to invest is yesterday, the next best is today. Trying to find the best time is difficult, so identifying the good investments currently is better. What your friend is doing is great.

No matter how small, just start, right? once started, the knowledge starts to build and the opportunities begin to arise.

In general, the people who are in crypto, tend to be more actively aware of their financial possibilities than those who are not, because it is essentially baked into the experience, and it requires some level of responsibility. However, this is a generalization

I agree and wouldn't even say it's that much of a generalisation tbh

Sure there may be some not into Crypto who are financially responsible and knowledgeable and have their reasons, but I think the majority of those invested in Crypto have their finger on the pulse.

Those all in on Crypto though I would question, for me it's all about balance and the optimum would be a balance across: Crypto, Shares, Dividends, Fiat, Funds, Precious metals, property (Reits if not on a position to own outright)

but I think the majority of those invested in Crypto have their finger on the pulse.

Or at least, know there is a pulse to find - many seem to approach finance as if it is clinically dead, and they only ever do an autopsy - coulda, woulda, shoulda.

I have too much in crypto...

Well, to be fair now is probably a good time to have too much in Crypto, but maybe plan an exit strategy to bring yourself back to closer to 20-30% of wealth and get into some dividend paying stocks and precious metals. You can't go too far wrong with diversity.

In general, the people who are in crypto, tend to be more actively aware of their financial possibilities than those who are not, because it is essentially baked into the experience, and it requires some level of responsibility

So true
and it also helps to have run out of money, several times before (and having recovered).

Running out of money, is a good teacher - just like any pain :)

I agree :<)

Very thought provoking post!

Hmm I have an interest in numbers/statistics, and I love to collect and analyse data, so I guess it's coincidental that I also analyse my personal data, be it finances, expenses, or other random stuff.

In general, the people who are in crypto, tend to be more actively aware of their financial possibilities than those who are not, because it is essentially baked into the experience, and it requires some level of responsibility.

I think this is largely true. Most people still view their 9 to 5 work income as the only source of income, which is kinda scary for me.

It is scary to have nothing to back up on. I have been in that situation, and am not that far from it now, but at least I am aware and building into something else :)

Good points, rarely is set it and forget it a good strategy in these ever changing times.
I like to tell my kids, the only constant is change. They laugh but get the point. I also tell them failing to plan is planning to fail. They laugh but get the point.
They are adults now and tell me these things back when I fail to monitor things for changes, or fail to plan ahead.
I smile and think to myself, my job here is almost done.
But since change is constant, there are constantly things to teach them.

I smile and think to myself, my job here is almost done.

This is winning as a parent' isn't it?

Yep. When they are smarter then you, you have succeeded.
:)

Life is constantly changing and I think being financially aware is never a bad thing. Most of what we do uses money and learning how to make the most of it can help out a lot. And with new technology or conditions, there could always be a better rate. The only thing I have to say is to consider the advantages and disadvantages. It might be cheaper to get a adjustable mortgage rate but rates could always go up if it's not fixed.

It might be better for her to stay put, or refinance with the same bank again, after shopping around and threatening to leave. For me, I am stuck for the next 7 years with the loan I have, with a very nice collar on the interest rates :)

Well our financial life is determined by how we plan to invest and build own portfolio of wealth and transactions. It is about properly managing the sectors the investments made and being confident to carry on where we feel to be confident.

You pointed out to the fact that taking lesser food and certainly having the impact over health conditions that is deteriorating and the same goes to monetary expenditures. What we can build, it would be either way directive and any future concern shouldn’t spoil the present conditions of wealths and expense of it - thats what I think to be right.

A lot of people are over confident these days, based on inexperience.

While constantly evaluating our standpoint is important, proper timing is also very essential. When the evaluation comes at the wrong time, little or nothing can be done about it. This is my observation and I think not much can be done about it, except to increase the frequency.

Yes, timing is important, but that is part of paying attention to conditions.

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I see that wealth can be obtained by investing, but the risk is still in sight.
Future predictions can reduce the risk of loss, of course, with careful analysis

Keeping track of our finances helps a lot and we will be able to fish out the unreasonable things we are spending our money on
These days, I have been spending recklessly and I don’t know how. I’d begin to take records of my spendings