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RE: Weekend-engagement week 20: An hour with...

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Hello dear friend @galenkp good day
It is good that you are in a competition that you are passionate about (shots) Much success

If I had the opportunity to choose a person to spend an hour with, it would be @bluemist, I have known him for virtually several years, and I want to meet him personally; I would like to know what you think, and what you feel about supporting and making so many people happy; What are your favorite things and what you hate, in short, I would like to know everything about you.

If I could choose a person from the past, it would be my father. My parents separated when I was eight years old; He was not a bad person, but he suffered from unhealthy jealousy, that made him beat my mother. Before she passed away, she wanted to speak to me to apologize, but since I was very young I refused. I would love to close that wound in my heart.

As you know I love agriculture, spending an hour in the garden is the best thing that can happen to me; That is a place where I find satisfaction.

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What a great choice in @bluemist. He truly has given a great many people happiness.

I don't have any regrets of your magnitude but I know I did some things when I was young that I'd really like to undo. I feel for you my friend.

The garden is peace, isn't it? It's a great place to spend time.

If he is a very beloved person in the Hispanic community, those who have dealt with him speak very well.

Who has not made mistakes in youth, only that some of them mark you for life.

El huero is the ideal place to think and plan life, there is a lot of peace there.

Thank you very much dear friend @ bigtom13 for these words
have a wonderful night

Oh man. I read this and had to respond. This weekend engagement is a good place to find authors to respond to. I burried my mother, too, and I got this one regret that I'd give nothing more than to undo.
Wish I wouldn't have done that.

I have a vague idea how you feel @jlufer.

How are you dear friend @dandays good afternoon
I am very sorry that you have been through such a situation.

When you are in adolescence, you do not think things through before acting, it was not difficult for me to approach and listen to him, as I always say, you can do what you feel, but you have to be aware that you have to assume the consequences of our actions.

Thank you very much for your empathy and comment on your situation
have a wonderful weekend

My pleasure, sir. And I wish you the same, enjoy the weekend! Cuz once it's gone, it's gone. I believe you'll see her again @jlufer.

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I don't think an hour would be enough to meet @bluemist, but I do know that it would be very entertaining, to learn about him, and his philanthropy.

I'm one of you, I love plants (nature itself) and I could spend hours fixing my plants.

How are you dear friend @rafaelgreen
It is true what you say, there lies the interesting part of the meeting, that you have only one hour to meet some of the most beloved people in the Hispanic community

Until now I have not met people who do not like agriculture, it is good that you also feel the same passion

I take this opportunity to wish you a splendid night and a happy rest

Plants are everyone's friend, what would our breed be without them.

I imagine the moment when the time starts: Time! Well Bluemist I have the following questions for you...

Very good wishes to you too friend. Blessings and successes.

It is true, that it would be us without nature nearby, plants play a very important role in our lives.

I think that the meeting would not be of the interrogation style, it would be a chat with friends, where the information flows according to the moment, I think it is a meeting to enjoy the company.

Have a great night.

Thanks for joining in this week and sharing answers to all three questions, and with such personal answers also. I feel sorry for your mother having been beaten by your father - Not a good situation for her. I hope she managed to find some enjoyment in life also because I don't expect she enjoyed the beatings.

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Hello dear friend @galenkp good evening
I hope you are enjoying the shooting tournament, and you are at your best.

The truth is not an experience that I would like to repeat, however we have learned a lot from the situation, my mother after that became a strong woman, and I always avoid being jealous of my partners, when I saw an indication of it, I remembered the bad my father's experience.

In spite of everything I was a child who grew up happy and very content.

Thank you very much for your empathy and your kind words
enjoy your weekend a lot

I aspire to be like @bluemist but that will take a long time, its great to know or be friends with someone who consider others and encourage them, its really nice to meet good people who sacrifice their time for others.

Sorry about how things ended with your parents, its good to know that you have forgiven your dad and you are ready to spend more time with even though he is no more.

Hello dear friend @jizzyjoe good day
The things we heartily desire, and we fight for, always come true dear friend. Without a doubt they are effort and dedication, you can fulfill your wishes.
I really appreciate your empathy and your kind words
I take this opportunity to wish you a wonderful weekend

It only takes time, thanks. Happy weekend

I can relate to your love for farming. I come from a rural town and my father was a farmer. He was also an abusive husband, but fortunately he changed his ways just on time to allow us to love and respect him again. I can feel your pain for not having had the chance to heal that would. It must be tough.
My father died some years ago and even though some of us still have emotional scars resulting from his violent years, we also have good memories to compensate.
I miss visiting my mother's house and taking care of her garden. It is an abandoned house now and I will probably never see it again.

hi @hlezama, How nice when you recognize that your father also left you happy moments.

That shows maturity

Thanks. It was tough to put bad memories behind and love him for what he was. He always meant the best for us, his methods were just too unorthodox, at least by today's standards. Men of his generation learned about life without many words and through even thougher methods.There was not self-help or therapy back then. You just had to man-up, as they say.
But once you forgive your parents for whatever flaw you think they had, it is easier to see all the good stuff.

Although I recently learned that parents are not forgiven, they are honored and blessed.

Because they have given us the greatest and most valuable thing, Life.

Hello dear friend @hlezama good afternoon
It is good that you are familiar with agriculture, it is a very rewarding activity.
Apparently it was normal at that time for parents to be strong and abusive, many people my age share this experience
It's good that your father has been able to change, that guy's wounds are hard to heal

I understand that melancholy well, with my mother we have left a house behind, now I pass by and I see her very deteriorated, it hurts my soul to see her like this

Thank you very much for your time and your kind words

Have a happy start to the week

Seems like a good choice ! He probably is a person with a huge heart!!

I'm so sorry for your parents, years ago my mother and I didn't have good communication and then I decided to change my whole attitude with her, she is a single mother and I always was upset about not having a father but I just had to accept it and stopped being so angry with her.

And I do love some gardening it's very relaxing I'm trying to take of my plants, a few plants but I'm starting haha

hello dear friend good afternoon @josehany
She is a very loved person in the Spanish-speaking community, and the truth is little is known about her, I don't think anyone knows her personally.

Many times the decisions of the parents end up affecting the children, I am very sorry for that situation that you have had to go through, the good thing is that you have been able to forgive and rebuild the relationship

Gardening and gardening are two extraordinary things, there are many satisfactions in them
I really appreciate your time, I take this opportunity to wish you a happy start to the week

Time teach us a lot !!! I learn about that with my mom

I'm agree with gardening so satisfying!

Hi @josehany, excuse me for butting in on your conversation, but I loved the part where you said you were upset about not having a father, but you accepted it and decided not to be angry with your mother anymore.

That's the first step to healing, acceptance and change.

It wasn't my mother's fault :( I could understand that with time, we are okay now and having a wonderful relationship

Thank you. Goodbye and I'm glad you're doing so well now.

I would hell want to meet @bluemist. He hides his identity as well. I would like to thank him for the good he is doing especially to my growth on hive in particular.

Sorry to hear about your parents. BTW, the garden is a good way to spend an hour.

Hello dear friend @ starstrings01 good afternoon
It is good to know that you are one of the blessed people, it is very important to be grateful in life, it is the key that opens many doors
good that you also like agriculture
Thank you very much for your words and pleasant visit
have a prosperous week

Hi @jlufer I think we are all curious and grateful for Mr. @bluesmit, I share that with you.

I am sorry for the experience he had with his father, but I am even more sorry that he did not have the time to reconcile before his departure, that is the interesting thing about this weekend challenge of @galenkp , we must value and use with intelligence more our time because it is a resource that does not return and is the most valuable thing we have.

I really enjoyed reading him, I felt his feeling and the authenticity of his words, i sent a strong hug.

hello dear friend @soyunasantacruz good afternoon
She is a person very loved by Hispanics, and her reserved personality is what attracts her the most. I love the profile you have

you know, when you're a teenager you think you have all the time in the world, and you only realize when it's late.

Time is the most valuable, whoever has it should take care of it more than money.

Thank you very much for your empathy dear friend, you are very kind: I take this opportunity to wish you a wonderful week, that you receive peace, happiness, health and prosperity

Hello thank you very much, amen I hope to have a fabulous week the same for you

Time passes very slowly before you turn 20, then it passes very quickly and you don't notice it.

I am in my fourth decade, I hope that my time will slow down so that I can enjoy the other 40 years to come 😬

What a beautiful compliment, I didn't know I had that image of myself, I feel honored and I ask God to give me the humility to continue like this.

Thank you and I had a great time sharing, happy week. @jlufer 😘

The fact that you learned a life's lesson from the situation as a child is good. I know it has helped you with you own family and attitude towards others.

I too learned valuable lessons that came from not too pleasant situations. When I think back on them, I know that the experiences I had made me stronger and led me down a different path in life.

Thank you for sharing.

Hello dear friend @justclickindiva good afternoon
I fully share your words, my mother often says, what does not kill strengthens.
I heartily appreciate that you have shared this experience, I highly value your visiting time. Thank you very much for your kind words
I wish you a beautiful night and happy dreams

You're welcome. Have a good night and rest of your week.