Silence is gold and even if talking has become a developed habit for so many people we will see very wealthy people who have cultivated the habit of being silent and we are left to wonder the reason why this is so.
Certainly, not everyone can become an introvert some occupations need people who are outspoken and extreme extroverts to become successful at it. There are some reasons why those who appear to be really quiet usually have a greater level of accomplishments.
They are great planners.
Silent people who have learnt not to talk too much usually have the time for personal reflections and this gives them the space to set more time and more target. This character of keeping to themselves gives them the time to do a lot of personal reflection and process a lot of information’s in their minds.
They are good listeners.
Quiet people are usually good listeners, while everyone else is trying to show off their well-spoken skill, silent people are listening to everything that everyone is saying and they are trying to process the information in their minds. Good listeners are usually very smart people who learn to listen more than they speak, therefore taking into consideration so many information and advice that people have to give.
They are usually creative.
Since quiet people usually spend time on their own, they have a lot of personal reflections going on in their heads and this makes them come up with extremely brilliant ideas that makes their business or whatever venture they are into more productive.
They understand the power of words and they use it efficiently.
It is not just a lousy person that can convince people to buy a product, quiet people often select their words carefully and it is easy for them to convince a prospect to buy from them easily without much persuasion since every spoken word has been carefully selected.
They are great observers and they keep only the best people.
Quiet people usually watch their circle and they have very few and limited friends around them, they tend to keep only good people that can add value to their lives and possibly overlook or ignore every other person that comes along.
Note: Not all silent people are successful and not lousy people are unsuccessful, it is merely a habit of taking advantage of some of the skills that come to us naturally and using it well to our own advantage.
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Silence is perhaps an act of prudence, and this second is a virtue that should accompany us at all times, this because as you mention in your publication silence is gold and even if talking has become a habit, however, this habit applies at times where we are usually exposed to an exchange of heated words, On the other hand, in the case of business contexts, silence can be interpreted as a bad habit, since the ideal is that the entrepreneur or salesperson should act in an extroverted way. Excellent publication.
Reading your article I identify a lot with him and I even thought at one point that you were describing my🤣.positive towards who we are communicating with, and this gives them security and makes them feel calm.
In this way it can be ensured that business is done in a pleasant environment and more effectively.And it also creates a sense of belonging to who we are negotiating with.
Very good your contribution and it seems to me that it is something that people should try to have as a habit.
Certainly the less you talk the more you listen and you may have better discernment skills, but you can't generalize about that, sometimes silent people have a problem of social adaptation or are distracted. Silence is used as a defense but also as a way to escape reality. I have Asperger's Syndrome and I am silent and maybe I have all the advantages that you mention, but it would be necessary to investigate what percentage of people fit in that generalization. @tipu curate 3
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Hi @ ajewa, silence if well used and managed has its benefits, i.e. in the right measure and in the right situation. It can offer an opportunity for reflection, decision making and even just personal growth by being more in touch with oneself. As well as being a manifestation of an emotional state, there are many options for taking advantage of silence or interpreting silence.
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