People will always recognize you by your personality.
When it comes to style, we both have similar mindset, not worrying too much about being stylish - rather we think, as long as we are comfortable, let that be our style. And of course, we always make sure to wear decent dress and guide our kids for the same. People will always recognize us by our personality, as long as we wear something decent, do you agree ? So unless it's a formal function or party, I pick anything and same goes with her, though she is a little ahead of me - girls probably have a higher sense of style.
Now a days, teen aged and young girls wear dress revealing most part of their body, and I am not very comfortable with that. Because I believe, by doing that, they invite trouble for themselves, by catching attention of others - the society if full of evil. So we have always recommended our daughter to go for decent clothing, however, she also has a mindset like ours - she gives comfort more priority.
H & M has opened a store in my city sometimes back and our daughter likes this brand the most because of comfort. There are all types of dress available, but we give her a guided shopping to make sure, she picks the decent ones. As parents, it's very important to teach and guide our kids to understand social implications, so that they carry the legacy. Some may call us very Conservative , but if that is for good, then so be it. As long as they were kid, everything was OK, but once they grown up, they need to understand as well. And even if this brand is a little expensive , I allow her to buy from here - that is where, I am flexible, which funnily does not go well with the boy. But hey kid, girls are like gold and boys are like iron - you need to keep the gold carefully as they are more delegate - their style urge will never stop, so be prepared.....
As there was no place in the store, I was standing like this and she loved that style, and came near me to take a photo.
She keeps telling me that I look better when I stand with her - so be it.....how can I deny the gold effect...
This post in in response to the STYLISH SATURDAY prompt of this week, feel free to tag me if you are participating and showing us your minimalist style.
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Of course. Prioritizing comfort and decency makes you at ease.
Totally agree with you. Good that you are teaching mindful choices to your daughter. Feminist may say it's their choice to wear reveling dresses, but our choice should be qualified by the environment we live in as well as our comfort and optics in our comfort zone.
For boys/make, the style quotient is very straightforward and does not need much deliberation, but we should give that space and time to our female counterparts to make a choice and make deliberations on that. You appear very convivial in this shot, sir.
That makes a couple complete and perfect, may you stand together forever and in many such photographic moments.
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I really loved the way you connected comfort with personality. Today’s generation is becoming more modern day by day, and many believe that revealing their body makes them look more modern. But I personally feel that covering our body does not make us any less modern. In fact, by covering ourselves, we protect ourselves from unwanted attention.
I do understand that even girls who are fully covered can still become victims of unfortunate incidents, but I still believe that dressing modestly helps to some extent. Just like people use the example of a sweet kept behind a glass cover being safe from flies, I think girls who wear less revealing clothes are comparatively more protected.
Of course, everyone has the right to wear whatever they feel comfortable in, and I completely respect that freedom. But if someone asks me for my opinion, I will always support the idea of dressing modestly, just like you mentioned in your post.
A friend of mine recently sat for the cabin Crew Interview and I remember that she referred the H&M brand to me at that time. She told me that it is a nice brand with good comfort just as you mentioned in your blog.
All your pictures are beautiful, thank you for sharing your day with us. God bless You!
Exactly, modernity should not be derived from dress.
But sadly our young generation thinks that modernity is only possible by adapting the western culture. One can be modern even by following our Indian culture as well and we have so many examples of them already.
Thank you for this comment
That will always be the best style when dressing and it is to be happy and comfortable on any occasion.
Dressing decently on some occasions is, let's say, frowned upon as it doesn't fit the style that the majority uses, but each of you prioritizes comfort over fashion.
Good morning, dear friend @sanjeevm
In the age we live in, there are superficial people who dress fashionably to attract attention. However, we are not valued by what we wear, but by who we are as people, our personality, how we behave with others, and our empathy.
The way you are raising your children is excellent, as is the wise advice you give them.
I take this opportunity to wish you a wonderful Sunday and a happy start to the week.
I like your way of living sir. We are addressed by the way we dress, dressing modestly is just the best. I don't like it when I see young girls exposing part of their bodies
I've just read how you keep your daughter caring her dress. A teenager nowadays they difference, as before.
Wearing Decent and Comfortable clothes with style is the best to go..... But i think teenagers should follow "जैसा देश वैसा भेस" (When in Rome, do as the Romans)
One thing i must say - "Adorable Couple"
Thank you so much.
My pleasure sir 😌
This is very important to similar mindset for both of couples. I really appreciate. Have a good day
I’m just like you people. There are some jeans that makes me feel itchy whenever I wear it. I stopped wearing them because it’s not making me comfortable
Clothes are meant to make us comfortable and not make us feel uncomfortable
That's really good that you people wear the decent clothing. Wearing decent clothes actually makes you look elegant. Moreover doing all the fashion and excessive looks are really overrated these days, people do like wearing what's decent because what I think is that most of the time I go out first I'm being noticied about how I dress up and seriously if sometimes you go out in the casual home clothes people just give you the worst looks ever.!
Great personality of you all....
This is very right... personality is very important...me and my husband also have the same mindset about this 😊😊
Me too, I'm not comfortable wearing some revealing dress, just a simple shirt that I find comfortable and to stay out of possible bad happens.
I do get the part of wanting Ur child to dress decently and I think not is the best thing to guide her well
People recognize me through my appearance not minding my character. My mood of dressing tells alot more about my personality. Being decent is 100% good for the fact that people will respect you. I agree with you😊🤝🏼💜. Have a spendid day ahead.
I really enjoyed reading this, @sanjeevm. It's beautiful how you and your wife value comfort and decency—it truly reflects in your parenting. Your daughter is lucky to have such thoughtful guidance. Thanks for sharing
Now that my husband and I are in our 40s, we’ve pretty much fully switched to sports brands—Nike, Puma, New Balance. I even buy sandals and kids’ clothes from them. For us, it’s definitely about comfort and quality.
At the same time, though, for kids, teens, and young people—it’s that moment in life when you want to feel like you just stepped out of a magazine. You want to live that stage of life in full color every now and then, even if wearing heels and short shorts makes you feel like you’re dressed up for Halloween. Not for every day, of course :)
I love how you recommend decent clothing for your daughter
Ladies nowadays are used to indecent dressings and it doesn’t make people honor them as women that they are
This is a good training that you are giving to your child
Well done!
Comfort comes first, and well, when it's time to dress casually or formally, it's fine, but for example, where I live, it's very hot most of the time, and you need ideal clothing for the summer.
i agree, comfort over everything! i don't care what they say about style, i like the comfort
i also think like you that society is full of evil and going around half naked just attracts too much attention... when i say like this they say it's not their fault but to the people harming, that they shouldn't, and i answer 'yes in an ideal world, but real world is different'
At this present stage whereby we live in comfort zone, it actually looking like comfort zone is our life
yes, I agree with you.. who cares if its the top fashion or whatever.. I figure, if it works for u, then that is what will be. 😉☺️🤙
You know what? That dress shows decency and class. I can't but stared at the trousers over and over again.
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