Our Homeschooling Journey | Quarter One Finally Done

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Wake Me Up When September Ends

Last month, @hiveph initiated a contest asking what "wake me up when September ends" mean to them. Apparently, I was asleep the whole September (save for some occasional catch up session with my friends) because September was full of activities - homeschool and so much more - for me and my family. I wasn't able to join the contest but this is what it meant to me.

Our quarter exams week was scheduled on the last week of September. To my daughter, it means she'll have to answer the questions I made for her but to me, it means I'll have to prepare the exams ahead of time. The days and weeks leading to the exam week has been very busy for me. The days after that was used for grading not just the exams but also the written works and performance tasks we have done for the whole quarter.

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I made it so that our first quarter will be done by the time September ends. September has ended, and I have already awaken. Looking back to our first quarter, I can say that we have accomplished so much! Listening to all her narrations, I can say that she's learned a lot. I sometimes catch her thinking very deeply about things, analyzing what she hears and draws her own conclusions and opinions about topics I myself sometimes don't mind. She's sometimes too witty to handle but I keep reminding myself that the reason we homeschool the way we homeschool is so that she can learn to think for herself reasonably, rationally, and factually for herself when she's an adult.

Exams

A good portion of the first quarter, I actually spent worrying about what exams I'll give to my daughter. I grew up learning through the traditional school, that means dreading the exams week, cramming the review, enduring moments of torment during the exams, and then worrying how I did once the exams is over. I've been dealing with stress even when I was young.

What do you think... vs. What is...

On each of her subjects, (except for Math), I only gave her 2-3 questions. I wanted to see if she does remember what we learned but more importantly, I wanted to see how she would analyze what she knows about the topics we discussed.

There is no distressing cramming for the term's examination. The pupils know their work and find it easy to answer questions set to find out what they know, rather than what they do not know.
-CM vol.3, p.301

For our Filipino subject, for example, I asked her: "Among the stories that we read, which one is your favorite?" She then goes on recounting the stories that we read. At this point, I am already grading her with how well she remembers the stories that we read. On the surface, I can see she's telling me the titles of the stories, but at the back of her head, her brain is already processing and pulling out all the information she can remember about each of the titles she mentions. Then when she tells me what was her favorite, (Papel de Liha) I then ask her to narrate it. This task puts her entire brain to work. She remembers the pictures, the events, the sequence of the events. I didn't even have to ask her what she thinks about it because towards the end, she told me how sandpaper feels like and how she feels about the story.

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We did not go through review. If you remember my post about narration, you'll see that we never read a passage twice. This is so that we can form the habit of attention. Once they have formed that, children will make sure they listen, and when they do listen and understand, it will be hard to forget what they learned during that session. It will not always pop out of their heads everytime, but when it comes down to trying to recall what they know, it won't be too hard for them to pull that information from their brain.

Removing the stress of having to answer multiple questions (most of the time, traditional exams are up to 50 questions) of "What is the name of...." or "Where did this character......" or those yes or no questions, I and my daughter had a lot of fun during our exams week. There was no pressure, no tears, no sweat (except for her PE). It was pure bliss. This is the first time I ever heard of an exam like this. An enjoyable kind of examination.

Grading

Here now comes the clerical part of the job. I remember my teacher say before "I'm not the one making your grades, you are. I just record what you made." I did not believe her before. I always thought there are some sort of emotions being used when teachers mark our grades in our report cards. Now that I am the one "recording" my daughter's progress, one of the challenges I have is grading her works objectively.

I approached this task as objective as I possibly can but still maintaining a human touch in the system. I graded my kid according to several criteria. Our Homeschool provider gave us a guide which I pretty much use on all of her works that need to be graded.

  • Remembering
    This is where her listening skills, attention to detail, focus, and retention is tested.

  • Understanding
    When one listens, one can comprehend. The way she talks about the story, the questions she asks during our open discussion shows how much she understands and wants to understand more about the topic.

  • Applying
    When I taught her the different brush strokes using the pointed paint brush, one of the things she mentioned is that she can now draw a sunflower because that's how the brush stroke looks like. Application of what she learned shows that she fully understood the discussion and she can easily use what she learned.
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  • Analyzing
    Our curriculum contains several books we digest everyday. On an average, we read up to 10 books per day. It almost seem like an overload. But when children are able to point out details from one book, relating it to another, and makes them analyze and form a relation for those topics, I also mark a grade for her on that aspect.

  • Evaluating
    One of my daughter's free reads is the book 365 Bible Stories. It contains stories from the bible with pictures to make it appealing to kids. She read about the crossing of the Red Sea a long time ago. Then when she came to the story of the crossing of the River Jordan, she came to me saying, "Nanay, I'm reading about the parting of the Jordan River. I also read before about Moses parting the Red Sea. There are so many parting of waters here in the bible, it's like these stories aren't scientifically real." I am not an avid bible reader, nor a devout or a religious so we had a very open discussion about this.

  • Creating
    Most of the time, her interpretation of the topic through her sketch narrations are what I grade her. She sometimes would re-enact it or just simply paint or draw her idea about the topics we talked about. I also add points to her grades when she does this.
  • Attitude towards the task
    This to me is one of the most important part of my grading system. Attitude is everything.

Plan Again

Now it's officially the start of our quarter 2. Last July, I formulated a plan on how to carry out the yearly objectives for our homeschooling journey. Some parts turned out fine, some I had to tweak, there were ones I needed to remove entirely.

After patting ourselves on the back for a quarter 1 well done, we are now moving on the the 2nd quarter of the schoolyear. There are lots of lessons we learned, habits formed, and relationships strengthened in the last quarter for us. We hope to keep our ball rolling, and continue to improve and grow as we move along.

How about you? How was your 1st quarter? If you are in your exams week/month, how are you doing so far?

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Oh my hardworking mommy rome! I really think your daughter is enjoying home schooling! I think I would. Just look at that. There’s no stress, no pressure because it’s as if I am just talking to a friend or just reliving the stories that were discussed.
Reading your journey made me convinced really that home school is may be tough but worth it! Might try that when I have a kid but then again I don’t have one 😂

Oo. Parang nagkukwentuhan lang kami palagi pag naglelessons kami. Tapos mostly sya yung nagdadaldal. Mejo nakakapagod din yung part ng prep at recording pero sobrang worth it

Yeah, the difficult thing talaga is the prep pero smooth sailing naman ang lessons nyo kaya it's really good! PAid off efforts mo

Hi @romeskie, no doubt September was a very busy month for you and your little one, the important thing was that she managed to advance in the use of the brush and can make beautiful drawings, as for reading, children surprise us with their ability to analyze and interpret, very interesting how she related the passage of the Red Sea and the Jordan River.

Success in planning for next trimester.

Blessings!

Thank you. It is one of the principles in the Charlotte Mason method. All children are actually able to absorb, analyze and think about the things we tell them. I used to think that young kids wouldn't understand complex ideas, but now I know that as long as we present it to them properly, they'll be able to absorb it. Before, I never even thought that a kid would appreciate Shakespeare. Now, we have just finished two of his stories.

cool.. i like that she was able to mention parting of the sea in the old testament... can you mention what is your provider? Are you also based in the Philippines or outside the country? my little one is still two but I want to prepare myself for homeschooling.. do you have a blog on how to get started with homeschooling?

Oooh, I also started prepping for our formal school when she was just a baby. I've always wanted to homeschool.

Our homeschool provider is Living Learning Homeschool. If you are new,to homeschool, this is one of the best providers there is. We're in the Philippines.

I know I blabbered a lot about the start of our homeschooling journey before. But if you want to get started, I recommend you read up the Homeschool Series of Charlotte Mason. Start with Home Education. I got my copy from ambleside online. It's a long read but it is full of so much info about parenting and homeschooling.

oh thanks this helps a lot! I know homeschooling is not for everyone but I want to instill values to my child and want to be his teacher however, I am also aware it is not easy...i will check out the provider you mentioned here

Aww, I love how you integrated a revised Bloom’s Taxonomy in teaching your child @romeskie . In the modern generation, it is not all about spoon feeding but it is actually a facilitated learning for a meaningful experience so it is not only about knowledge, but as well as attitude and skills for life-long learning. You are such an inspiration. How I wish all nanays are like you. Let me tell you that you are so amazing! Have a nice day and take care.

Thank you @pinkchic
Our homeschool provider taught us parents most of the things that we do in our homeschooling journey. Bloom's taxonomy and Rubric's scoring are some of those. Kapag may pa-training, attend lang ako nang attend. Hahaha

Wow, amazing yung homeschool na yan sis. Implementing the best curriculum. Mynsalute to a great mother like you. Best regards.

I grew up and studied in a traditional school and unlike homeschooling which is harder and stricter. I'm truly impressed with your daughter's progress and how she handled the lessons and activities you threw up on her. It must be pretty amazing and creating a stronger relationship like this, nanay @romeskie.

Thus, there were a lot of activities you both did together. Her creativities certainly grew larger and I laughed hard from some of your conversations with her. Just hilarious! She's wise, indeed.

Have some !PIZZA

She is really turning out to be smart. And so witty. Haha. Actually strict din sa trad school. Sobrang generalized lang kasi ng system kasi it is designed to cater to several students. Homeschooling kasi is a targeted teaching method. Isa or dalawa or tatlo lang halos ang estudyante ng isang parent educator. Kaya specifically designed sa student ang lessons.

Hello sis @romeskie, how old is your daughter? she never went to school since? Mayroon ka ba talagang guide kung ano ang ituturo mo sa kanya?

I am amazed on how you handle and teach your daughter. You're a good teacher and your daughter is so smart too.

My son is attending traditional school right now and he is in Kinder 1. Supposed to be he is kinder 2 but his age doesn't met their qualification.

She just turned 6. Yep, never been to traditional school siya. Minsan dinala ng sister ko sa classroom ng cousins nya, the teachers there loved her.

I went through trainings facilitated by our homeschool provider. There are trainings that they require us to attend, there are some na I just chose because I think it would help in our homeschooling journey. And it did. Nabawasan ang doubts ko sa sarili ko. Hehe.

Yeah, we also follow the deped age requirements sa schooling. The beauty though in homeschooling is we can choose the lessons na ituturo ko sa kanya. So on paper, she's grade 1. But the things I teach her is already based on what she can grasp.

If I am going to wrap my head around what you have done it seems very complicated to me, but you did it, congratulations! And good luck in advance in the next quarter.

Grabe, I kept reminding myself last quarter to just take it 1 day at a time. One subject after another. The next thing I know, we're finally done with first quarter. Haha

kaya saludo ako sayo, ako baka hindi ko kaya gawin ang ganyan.

Hi @romeskie , I was curious..you are the one facilitating your daughter's homeschooling? Was is not hard? I mean teacher and student relationship. If I were you, though I don't yet have a child might ended up thought nothing😂.
Why? What if she doesn't want to study? Then persuade me through paglalambing😂. Patay na😅, my heart will melt😂

Actually it is very challenging. I always have to remind myself why we choose to educate her the way we do. But when we see the results or our method, it is very rewarding.

We always keep our communication open. She can tell me when she doesn't feel like it, and she tells me why, then I give her enough space so that she can take a breather. Last year, we needed a lot of those especially towards the end pf the schoolyear. But with the current method we're using, she's the one convincing her cousins that learning is actually fun and that she looks forward to all of pur study sessions.

Sana all Ate magaling magplan ng mga gagawin throughout the day for the kid. Mother ko sa kapatid ko, tamad tamad haha. Wala kaming 1st quarter ganon ganon, prelim, midterm and finals lang haha. Kastress minsan nung mga rereviewhin kasi walang pumapasok sa utak ko hahahhahaha

Haha. Syempre every parent has their own struggles. Parenting is never easy, it's a huge responsibility. Our parents just do the best they can. Kastress nga talaga ang mga reviews. I remember before, I use my time wisely when reviewing. Pag traffic sa byahe papunta sa school or pauwi sa bahay, I use that time to review. It sucks our all of the fun sometimes. But well, that's what was handed to me, diskartehan na lang. Haha

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u can never be TOO witty! (unless it's smart alecky.. I hate that!)

I was worried about my son. He has been homeschooled since covid hit and just started back at public school recently, but he is doing GREAT and even made student of the month! :)

Good job! There are kids that like the atmosphere of the school environment. They prosper more when they are around other kids. And that's awesome too. Congrats to your little boy. :)

😉😊😁😎🤙 Mahalo! and yea, u're right.

It's the plan I want for my daughter. She's 2 now but when it's time to start kindergarten, I hope to be ready to homeschool her. It has many advantages and you can get a lot more out of the school hours. I wish you both success and blessings.

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I liked reading your experience in terms of exams and the education you give your little girl. Let's continue educating and training with dedication and love.

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