One would have to scroll a long way back through your post/material, but if they did they would see that in fact you did cover all these items. You seem to be pretty observant and not at all naive to the obvious that seems to be invisible to everyone else living there. It’s so true that you can not know what life is like in a culture until you’ve lived it. And You’ve lived it. Will anything ever change? Assuming not. Enjoyed the post even though it’s depressingly truthful.