thank you, and yess it was a hard time. We have lost our parent within nearly 2 years, and that's hard, emotional very tough, and i had the distraction of going to work, than come home in my little house, with the garden, created from the inheretance of my parents, and my little dog. My sis has her home to, but it didn't feel home for her for a long time, after a difficult time for her (for me also, because when she went away in the middle of the night, with strangers i didn't trust, i was worried sick sometimes, but i had to let her be "wild" and free, and contact me at her time) and when she bought her white fluf Rowan, it became a home for her, a little time. But as always, the living has to move ons, pick up their life's again, and that's exactly what we have done, first together in a house, and after a while seperately, we got to know our current partners and settle both in our own way.