Change your Words; Change your Mindset

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Do we realize in a day how many words we use and what is the quality of our vocabulary. Words are the most powerful tool in our life and it greatly influences our life too...

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When our vocabulary is filled with positive words, we attract the same in our life. i.e. positive people, positive outcomes, positive thinking and if it is filled with negative words then for sure the other way around. Positive words can activate the motivational centers of the brain.

So today let's see what is that we can avoid and what is it that we should use, to create a positive impact on our lives.

These are just a few of them, there are ample of such phrases which can always be given a positive tweak. Its good to use positive words in our day to day communication, they always give you a good boost. You can list down in your comments what more you all can think of 😎🤓👀

Right vocabulary is also very important while having conversation with children. If we keep using negative words with them, we keep enforcing their tender minds with negativity. When we bring positivity into our conversations with them even if they have not done something right, we give them hope and a sense of direction.

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Thank you for posting @nainaztengra.

Lovely write-up and topic.

Vocabulary is how one communicates....is it not.

Appreciate your attention to using a positive way to say the same thing.

Cheers.

oh great!
you will not believe, but I have just read the article about this))
great topic, we really don't understand how much power our words have

I was reading about words and phrases we say like :damn, shit, i'm shocked, hell,and so on (there were many examples in Russian, but they have no similarities in English), they all have negative impact and bad influence on our life even if we don't notice it

Thoughts are powerful, but words are even more powerful

Yes my dear, when we use certain words regularly they become a part of our personality, so its very important to be mindful.

yes..
we have a phrase in Russian - show me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are.
But it's the same about words - let me know how you speak, and I will tell you who you are.

i totally agree @nainaztengra, i keep saying to my self: I am a Whale on Steemit, I am a Whale on Steemit! :D

That's super @dimas-alfaruq. I absolutely love your spirit

thank you!! with everyone help i can accomplished it

I agree with you in terms of words having power in and over our lives. I am careful about not only my vocabulary but also my self-talk. I make sure what I am saying inside my head does not undermine my goals. It is difficult in today's word but necessary if you want to create positive change. And certainly along with right vocabulary, you have to do many other things like surrounding yourself with positive people and avoiding situations that are negative. With these strategies you will find they all feed each other and help with you vocabulary. Do you have any other tips you can recommend?

Yes its very very important to be mindful about your internal conversations also. Its not only about being good just on the outer side and internally there is a chaos. Peace only comes when both synchronize

I agree. I live in Thailand and meditation is a way of life. A way to get your internal self in order. have you ever tried it?

Thank you for these great reminders!! I got one! Instead of "These kids are driving me crazy!!!" say, "I will take a break and drink some coffee by myself now." 😂

Haha that's a good one @snowpea but in this area of our lives we never mean anything negative. I would love if the kids get me crazy.

I love children and though I do not have aome of my own yet, I use my younger brother to learn. So far, it is good to interact with children and help them through in love love with no negative outbursts on them.

Yes kids in the family pick up very fast from what is being said and done in the house so we elders need to be very careful about ths usage of our words

Positivity only comes throurh positive thinking and accepting everything in positive manner. The words can not reflect your action. Good thought to make possible...as nothing is impossible

Good thoughts, good words and good deeds are the key pillars to a rightful life hence we need to be always conscious about thesr three

It's true. Words are spells with each of them having a unique vibration guiding you either through heaven or hell. It's your choice - what you say!

Thanks for making this! Keep on enlightening the world through yourself. Spell your own way to the wealth.

I very much agree, with every word you sow a seed. So it depends on you what you want to harvest.

Exactly! And remember - do it with love!

The law of attraction is real! And you are right about how we communicate with children. My wife and I have lately deleted "be careful" out of our vocabulary because it implies that there should be fear. Instead we are using "be aware". this is a great post and I will follow you from this point on.

UV resteemed.

That's so awesome. I wish every parent can think like you. The moment you say be careful or such words you instil fear within them. Its ok let them experience and learn certain things in life by themselves even if it is the hard way

which you convey correctly by changing our style of speech will have a major impact with our surroundings. a very build post thank you

Thank you @danarlutfi. Yes our words have a great impact on our lives as well as our surroundings

Exactly, there is solely 2 views of perceptive. Either to search out excuses and continue whiney regarding the items or to require the responsibility, do not build excuses for faux gratification and still learn and build your life made. Our perspective will do each things, either it will destroy America or it will build America, relying upon what we wish.....

Our perspective can either make us or break us so its upto us where we want to see ourselves. We can keep making excuses and justify our failures or we can just have a positive approach and take charge of our lives

to change the word "failure to success" is not easy, but it takes effort, hard work, cooperation, struggle, sacrifice and patience.
May we all SUCCESS

Key to success is always moving ahead irrespective of failures and road blocks. So one should have the end result in mind always

hopefully it happens

This is one of the topics which are crucial for us but not many people talk about it. I've realized the power of our vocabulary when I read one of my favorite books from Tony Robbins "Awaken the giant within." Any vocabulary we use throughout the day create also certain emotions which impact our lives on a daily basis. Great article.

Exactly, there can be only two perspectives of observing. Either to find excuses and continue complaining about the things or to take the responsibility, don't make excuses for fake gratification and continue to learn and make your life successful. Our perspective can do both things, either it can destroy us or it can build us, depending upon what we want.
Thank you for sharing such thoughts. I'm a big supporter of this thinking you just shared @nainaztengra. :)

Thank you @faizan-ashraf for reflecting on my thoughts and sharing your perspective. We just make excuses to justify our own behaviour after failures.

Interesting and useful post I think many people are nervous because of negative thoughts that come to him when there are new things that can not or can not be done, not necessarily what he thinks will happen and have a bad effect.

Indeed there is time we occasionally be vigilant, but not to think about the downside and for a long time. Instead what is needed is a solution of what we are going to happen, If you fill your life with negative thinking, you would be easily overcome anxiety and fear and inhibit productivity. trying to think positively and looking for a solution of a problem, there will be hope that wakes up so something you hope will be very likely to be able to achieve.

Our feelings will also be more peaceful and peaceful when can get used to always think positive and seek solutions. what you hope is not achieved, of course you sud ah try and sure (will be with prayer) will be achieved in the future.

Thaks you.....

Negative thoughts are natural to come. You should not suppress them cause if you do that it will in future blast out in some form. You need to reflect on your negative thoughts and see if there is any way you can deal with it. You will always find solutions. Thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts @jamalgayoni

There is an exception to this...
Sometimes swear words(especially the F word) keeps us going. ;)

Haha....those are not words, they are fillers....use them at your convinience

I swear like a sailor. They are the only real words in my dictionary.

Infuse your life with action. Don't wait for it to happen. Make it happen. Make your own future. Make your own hope. Make your own love. And whatever your beliefs, honor your creator, not by passively waiting for grace to come down from upon high, but by doing what you can to make grace happen... yourself, right now, right down here on Earth.

You can be in charge of your life so all that matters is your approach. Thank you for sharing your thoughts @wa2qr

@nainaztengra
I have not always practiced this but have always believed in the power of internal dialogue, and many years ago decided to put it into practise, and so much has changed just by purely rewiring my brain and thoughts towards a more positive end.

My most favourite sayings I now live by:
Thought... Word... Deed...
"Everything you can imagine is real."

So true @michaeljn. The power of good thoughts, words and deeds is the ultimate. If you become mindful of these nothing can take over on you.

Positivity is very important in the surroundings. But sometimes, the circumstances make the situation worse and it takes a lot of effort and time to recover and bring positivity back. Yes words do count a lot. But you have to keep reminding yourself about it in intense cases. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

I can understand that @attiyaomer and completly agree but when we come to this level of understanding then we also realize that nothing is permanent. If good times dont stay forever nor do bad times. So being in the right frame of mind will also help you sail smoothly in difficult times.

I absolutely love this post and the mindset it promotes. Every day as a teacher I deal with students who are so quick to turn to a negative mindset. I have actually made it a rule in my classroom that you are not allowed to say things like "I can't" or other negative terms used to push a defeatist attitude. It's hard for them at times. I often catch them mid sentence and they will smile and change the direction of their words. We will have discussions about positive mindset in the classroom regularly. Only positivity and perseverance will help us achieve even the smallest of goals. Thanks for sharing this post.

That's wonderful @broncofan99, as a teacher the responsibility gets all the more bigger. You become the role model and you are playing that role so perfectly. I respect your work and thoughts.

Thanks so much. We have such a big role to play in the development of these kids.

This is what we call the perfect communicable vocabulary and it brings maturity as well. I have learnt it and thanks a lot the beautiful Nainaz <3

Thank you @salmanbukhari54 for complimenting my work

Words are very powerful and definately have an effect on how you feel and make others feel around you!
I loved the positive examples you gave!
Thanks for sharing😁

WHAT WE SAY IS THE REFLECTION OF WHAT WE FEEL. THE MORE TRUST AND POSITIVES WE ARE WITH OURSELVES AND THE BETTER WE CAN COMMUNICATE WITH THE DEMAS.TU POST IS A CLEAR EXAMPLE OF MOTIVATION AND PERSONAL REINFORCEMENT.THE CONGRATULATIONS ... I INVITE YOU TO READ MY LAST POST AND HAVE YOUR COMMENT AND VOTE. THANK YOU

Thank you @olgaparica for your thoughts.

Hi
It's a good article.

No one can ignore this reality

Your right, fear is limitation to growth that forces an individual with few or no options with available opportunity. Living in fear affect self confidence in talking action.

Absolutely brilliant. Thanx for sharing @febradaytamarra

Words are very powerful,whatever comes out of one's mouth should always be positive.

That's very true @carkia

obviously,Your positive action combined with positive thinking results in success.

This is a great reminder!! Thank you for this awesome post babe :)

Thank you for telling us a word

A post to bookmark & read on the days when you feel like things are not going that great. Recommended!

Thank you @acdevan. I am glad you liked my post

Great words... very motivating thanks for sharing :)

The manner you speak or think have a great impact on your personality. You cannot go beyond your thought. An individual life is a reflection of his imagination. If your positive and confident, you tend to realize goals often. If your negative and always see problems rather than possibilities, you always have higher percentage of failing.

True, your thoughts will reflect in your words and action, so if you become mindful you can change lot of things for your good.

Word, words and words.
We shoukd carefully use the words and try to speak those ones which are full of positivity and give others also courage

Thank you @genelia, appreciate your thoughts.

Great post and advice. Sometimes its the simplest changes in life, that make the largest impact.

its just a simple article.
But it can save plenty of life
nice nice nice very nice

so good! organization and message are so clear!

It's true how many times we use negative words without thinking about. I love the way you have changed the negative sentences into positive ones.
Positive self-talk is so important as well as positive talking to others, although it can be very difficult when surrounded by the negativity of others.

Thank yoy @kezza for reciprocating my thoughts. Self talk is as important as talking to others. The inside and outside both needs to be taken care for a healthy life

I agree with you. @nainaztengra you always come with a new and unique idea.
Nice post

Excellent post

People are beginning to understand that there truly is a mind - body connection. Hypochondria and it's resulting poor immune system has been known but not understood for a long time. The opposite is true. The immune system acts and reacts.

Thats a very good explanation @quiplet. The mind body connection governs a lot of things for us hence its very important to have that balance

Free your mind, and your ass will follow!

Absolutely true. Using positives in place of negatives surely helps! Like I usually say "Remember to do ...." Instead of "Do not forget to..."
It just keeps your mind in the right space.
Thanks for reminding me of this nainaz :)
Cheers!

I agree with you !!

yes it is really a powerful tool and what has been said can never be unsaid so lets be very careful in saying a word.

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